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Tips for success: getting good proposals

Practical advice drawn from the experience of members who got good responses quickly.

About 4 min read Last updated: 9 October 2026

1.Strengthen your profile

  • Complete more than 80% of your profile
  • Get the “Verified” badge by verifying your birth registration — many families search only verified profiles
  • Get your education certificate verified
  • Write sincerely in the “About me” section
  • Update your information from time to time

2.Stay active regularly

Log in at least 2–3 days a week. Active members get an “Active this week” badge in search, and earn 1 point for every active minute too (up to 60 a day).

3.Reply promptly and politely

Answer interests you receive within 2–3 days. Even if you're not interested, say no politely — then the other side isn't left waiting.

4.Realistic expectations

Be strict only about what truly matters. Widening the age or district range a little brings many good proposals.

5.Involve your family from the start

Download or print the biodata of the profiles you like on your shortlist, show your family and ask their opinion from the start. With your family's support, discussions are quicker and easier.

6.Use boosts wisely

Boost after your profile is complete and verified — an incomplete profile gets few responses even at the top. More members are active in the evenings and on holidays.

Read the boost guide →

7.Patience and dua

Finding the right person can take time. Don't lose heart, stay safe and put your trust in Allah.

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