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Community guidelines

ShadiMaker is a halal, modest, family environment guided by Islamic values. We expect the following conduct from every member and guardian. Following these guidelines is part of the terms of use.

About 5 min read Last updated: 9 October 2026

1.Core values

RespectRespect every member and their family, even when you disagree.
HonestyTell the truth about yourself; don't hide anything.
Modesty and family honourGet in touch only for marriage, and keep it modest — not for dating or passing time.
SafetyTreat other people's safety and privacy as seriously as your own.

2.Who can become a member

  • A person who has reached the legal age for marriage under Bangladeshi law (women 18, men 21), or a family member on their behalf
  • Unmarried, divorced, widowed or (grooms only) married — marital status must be stated accurately
  • Only a real guardian's number may be given as the guardian's mobile number
  • One profile per person

3.Behaviour that is not allowed

  • Indecent, sexually suggestive or insulting language or images
  • Asking for money, gifts, loans or financial details
  • A fake identity, someone else's photos or false information
  • Threats, harassment, stalking or forced contact
  • Discriminatory remarks about ethnicity, caste, skin colour, region or disability
  • Commercial promotion, matchmaking businesses or steering people to other sites
  • Publishing another member's information or photos elsewhere without permission
  • Opening more than one account or misusing the points system
  • Advertising, spam or suspicious links in support tickets, reviews, success stories or blog posts; submitting the same text again and again; or passing off someone else's writing as your own

4.Communication etiquette

  • Greet with salaam and speak respectfully
  • Accept it when someone says no
  • Keep things modest before marriage
  • Keep your family involved in the discussions

5.If the rules are broken

Depending on how serious the breach is, we may issue a warning, hide the profile, cancel points, suspend the account temporarily or remove it permanently. In cases of illegal activity, we cooperate with law enforcement.

If you think a decision is wrong, you can request a review from the contact page within 14 days of the decision.

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